How do you find out what it is you really want? Pick a big goal. Pick a goal that's so extremely outrageous that your mind can't possibly comprehend it and make that your greatest wish. For example, my goal is to perform at Carnegie Hall. Will I ever play Carnegie Hall? Probably, but who knows, I could get hit by a bus tomorrow and never make it.
If you have sonobliss after a cold or flu, it is a good idea to check in with your physician. Another time to check in is if you suddenly begin having symptoms that you didn't have before. If your sonobliss only occurs for a moment once and while it is not a problem, unless it bothers you. sonobliss is described as a ringing, buzzing, whistling, hissing, or clicking sound.
I noticed that you downloaded my "6 Top Ways to Reduce the Ringing" eReport. You're only on chapter 2. Have you adopted the first 2 lessons? Can and will you make them a habit? I promise that if you make them a habit you will heal over time.